“The Law of Mirrors” states that one can only see what’s in them, regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.
Release the need to defend or try to explain to them that you're not being whatever-nasty-insult-they've-thrown-at-you, but evaluate instead all of these insults, and realize that this is who they are.Then, decide if a person with those qualities is one who you'd like in your life or not.
Doe Zantamata
When people insult you, don't take offense, don’t take it personally, but do listen to their words. They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess.
No matter how much you regret, how angry or sad you become,your yesterdays will never return.
The world of "should have" or "could have" or "if only would have" is a world of pointless suffering.
~Doe Zantamata
Be careful of the Karma of Judgement. When you say, "How could anyone...," or "I can't understand why someone would...," you are literally asking the universe to give you that experience.
Karma isn't about punishment or reward, it's about understanding. When you judge someone, you will soon find yourself in a similar position as they were. You will then see why they made the seemingly bad choices they made, and you may even make the exact same ones. If not, at least you will know why they did.
~Doe Zantamata
Karma is a word often used as a curse on those who have done something wrong. It's also thought of as a way that someone will receive payback for good or bad that they've done. Karma is not a punishment or reward system. It is based on understanding. If you only do good things in expectation of reward, the reward will not show up. If you do good things purely for the basis of helping another, then it will always show up without fail. Karma is not something that can be controlled, but it is something that always delivers..
~Doe Zantamata